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Jody Hughes - Posted - 08/23/2010: 08:37:15
Once again, failed to address the issues of
1)No Notification was given
2)Credit given for the work
Either the action is appropriate or not. Which is what the thread is really about. I'm not really interested in "quantifying" my losses. I'm simply asking for the action to be corrected. In addition, I think it's wrong for people to tell me that I don't have the right to not want my work to be used without my permission for someone elses personal gain.
I do really question how NOTIFICATION couldn't be given, yet I get mass emails in my inbox from the BHO about drawings, member union dues, etc. If no intent to notify or make people aware of this action, then I question the motifs behind said action.
As far as posting it in the public. Well, this is because it IS a public issue. How many members of the BHO do you think are still unaware that their music is being used for something that they didn't originally intend??
Furthermore, there are members that haven't logged in for a long time and I bet some of there music is on there. It doesn't involve just me. I'm sure many involved won't even read this thread and will still be uninformed.
I think the correct actions would be
1)Make sure there are terms when people upload their soundfiles that let them know there music will be redistributed
2)Inform all members involved via email, so all will know and can either choose to make there music unavailable OR they can make appropriate changes so they receive credit for their work.
So, to answer your rebuttal, NO my legitimate concerns were not resolved or answered.
Please visit this thread
banjohangout.org/topic/184417
It appears I'm not the only one unhappy about BHO soundfiles being distributed without credit.
Lastly, Eric earlier said:
"I'm the one footing the bill for the downloads and PRO licenses, for what is probably a negligable business benefit."
He is footing the bill, which makes it a tax write-off, aka an advertising expense. He is basically using member soundfiles to promote his website and then writing it off on his taxes. Therefore, it could be argued he is actually using peoples material for a business profit without their permission. I think people should have the right to be aware of this decision? No, it's not the same as a person posting on this website and that in turn drawing people to the website, because of the simple fact that they are AWARE of it.
Laurence Diehl - Posted - 08/23/2010: 08:57:08
I always assume that when I post content in the public domain it is going to get used in ways I might not anticipate. That is just the way it is. I can accept it, or just not post any content.
Laurence
Jody Hughes - Posted - 08/23/2010: 08:59:36
quote:
Originally posted by dlc
LOVE that internet! It's the greatest access to FREE ADVERTISING the world has ever seen.
I upload my music to as many sites as I can. Same with short stories and some poetry. I found that one of my short stories had been read more than 2000 times before a particular literary website went offline. TWO THOUSAND TIMES! That means there are a couple thousand - give or take a few re-readers - out there who are potential buyers when they see my name on a novel. And all it cost me was letting them read that ONE (or more) short story for free - and there is an endless supply of short stories and novels I still have to write!
Same with my music. If someone likes my free uploads, they're more likely to BUY my music when it's available for sale. If they like my free songs, there are PLENTY MORE songs for sale where the free ones came from. And if you band members want to learn some of my tunes, GO FOR IT! You certainly have my blessing.
I've been all over this in the BMI/ASCAP threads. If someone likes my music, COOL! I hope they enjoy the free uploads! And if they're interested in more, I'll let them know where they can buy it.
I don't know about the amateurs, and I can't speak for any of the pros except myself, but to me it's NOT like we're talking about a finite amount of intellectual property here. Like I said, there's plenty more where that came from.
And like Tom Elder said, I can either let it go or take it to the grave with me - and I prefer to let it go (especially when letting a little of it go can make me some $$$ on the rest!).
But I certainly understand that not everyone will share that view.
schlange - Posted - 08/23/2010: 09:05:05
Jody--are you even reading my posts? I've already addressed these issues multiple times in this thread, so unless you're willing to explain why my reasoning isn't good enough, I consider this issue resolved.
quote:
Originally posted by Banjocoltrane
He is footing the bill, which makes it a tax write-off, aka an advertising expense. He is basically using member soundfiles to promote his website and then writing it off on his taxes. Therefore, it could be argued he is actually using peoples material for a business profit without their permission....
frailin - Posted - 08/23/2010: 09:09:01
quote:
I do have a problem with people not respecting others work and redistributing it for business and personal gain wherever they want without permission.
Banjocoltrane
Edited by - frailin on 08/23/2010 09:15:36
Mike Greylak - Posted - 08/23/2010: 11:18:31
I wish Banjocoltrane the best, but why doesn't he support the website by joining the players union? Eric: Send him a dollar from my yearly donation -- PS I am filing a lawsuit 'cause my avatar wasn't in the "Earl" picture!!
tomberghan - Posted - 08/23/2010: 11:43:41
READ THIS
People, People, People . . . take a deep breath.
All you have to do is go into your MP3 description and put your name in as the first thing in your description. Now that makes no sense from a BHO perspective . . . but since iTunes is choosing to show the title of the tune and description, then, that is the solution for you.
And besides, since most BHO members have names like "Night_Owl_Funky_Banjo_Dude" no one would know who that is anyway.
So if you have a description that now reads something like:
"I learned this tune from my old Uncle Elmer who had gout but could really play the banjo . . . "
Change it to read like this:
"John Doe (i.e. your name). I learned this tune from my old Uncle Elmer . . . "
Then in the description it will show your real name and you will be proud and happy! It will show the name of the tune and your name (it will not show the description you wrote about your Uncle Elmer unless the viewer clicks on the description)
Problem . . . Problem Solved! ![]()
Edited by - tomberghan on 08/23/2010 12:26:02
Viper - Posted - 08/23/2010: 11:54:36
My prediction as to the response from the original poster:
quote:
Originally posted by Banjocoltrane
Once again, failed to address the issues of
1)No Notification was given
2)Credit given for the work
Bayou Talker - Posted - 08/23/2010: 13:24:33
YUP, looks like there are 2 of you upset but Banjov apparantly deleted his files so it won't happen again. You do have the same option. Perhaps you should do the same.
quote:
Originally posted by Banjocoltrane
Please visit this thread
banjohangout.org/topic/184417
It appears I'm not the only one unhappy about BHO soundfiles being distributed without credit.
BryanWB - Posted - 08/23/2010: 14:59:16
What a bunch of "me me me's" - more enjoyment in an argument than producing music for pleasure!
If you don't want your music public, just lock yourselves in the cellar, and don't post anything.
Not difficult, is it?
tom elder - Posted - 08/23/2010: 15:29:28
I can come out of the earphone jack and down load anything,You all better watch out,I might even listen to it a time or 2 if you strike me as a nice person.
Jody Hughes - Posted - 08/23/2010: 19:09:08
quote:
Originally posted by schlange
Jody--are you even reading my posts? I've already addressed these issues multiple times in this thread, so unless you're willing to explain why my reasoning isn't good enough, I consider this issue resolved.quote:
Originally posted by Banjocoltrane
He is footing the bill, which makes it a tax write-off, aka an advertising expense. He is basically using member soundfiles to promote his website and then writing it off on his taxes. Therefore, it could be argued he is actually using peoples material for a business profit without their permission....
Are you really saying that I'm turning an expense into profit? Don't I wish that were possible! Tax write-offs don't typically "net" you money. Example: if I paid, say, $100 in extra hosting charges because of iTunes traffic, and I wrote off that expense, that would lower my tax bill by, say, $30. I'm still spending $70 on iTunes traffic. Or am I missing something here?
Edited by - Jody Hughes on 08/23/2010 19:14:17
Jody Hughes - Posted - 08/23/2010: 19:21:43
quote:
Originally posted by BryanWB
What a bunch of "me me me's" - more enjoyment in an argument than producing music for pleasure!
If you don't want your music public, just lock yourselves in the cellar, and don't post anything.
Not difficult, is it?
Edited by - Jody Hughes on 08/23/2010 19:23:17
Jody Hughes - Posted - 08/23/2010: 19:25:54
quote:
Originally posted by Bayou Talker
YUP, looks like there are 2 of you upset but Banjov apparantly deleted his files so it won't happen again. You do have the same option. Perhaps you should do the same.quote:
Originally posted by Banjocoltrane
Please visit this thread
banjohangout.org/topic/184417
It appears I'm not the only one unhappy about BHO soundfiles being distributed without credit.
Tommy5 - Posted - 08/23/2010: 19:47:42
What we have here is failure to communicate,the mp3 aren,t on itunes it is more like a link another portal leading to the same thing.It is like the students in my classroom , some know they can,t access certain websites so they go to goggle to get to the forbidden site and then say they weren,t on that site they were on goggle.
KRbanjo - Posted - 08/23/2010: 19:55:43
FWIW, I think Jody is right, notification and credit should be given. I am definitely NOT accusing Eric doing anything wrong but I was never aware that anything I posted would or could be used elsewhere (not that anyone would want to).
I did enjoy hearing my 41sec song on I tunes but I still can't figure out how to see my name there, maybe someone can tell me.
Before Eric got the deal with BMI and Ascap there were many posts and topics by members here about not using copyrighted material, not doing anyone elses version of a song, etc. without their permission. I don't really care about my little version of "Sourwood Mountain" but I can certainly see where Jody is coming from and how other musicians could be upset about it.
Kevin
schlange - Posted - 08/23/2010: 20:03:02
Well, it sounds like we'll have to agree to disagree, Jody. I still maintain that:
1) I've always given members credit, from day 1, for everything they post. See my previous posts for explanations on that.
2) No "third party service" notifications are necessary to people uploading MP3s -- if you post your MP3 on a public site like the Banjo Hangout, you can expect it to be downloaded by anyone and everyone. It's been this way since day 1 as well--and the iTunes feeds have been up all that time.
3) I often take actions and invest money into this site for reasons other than "the bottom line," despite what you say.
I'm sorry you don't agree--that's certainly your right. I'm not going to keep arguing with you here, because frankly I'm tired of it. You're a smart guy, and about as stubborn as me... so I'm not sure either of us will be changing our minds on this anytime soon.
My recommendation is that we continue this conversation in a more focused and positive way. If you want to move out of 'attack mode' and voice some specific constructive ideas for positive improvements, I would invite you to post them to the Improvements and Suggestion forum.
dustinTN - Posted - 08/23/2010: 20:20:28
When one starts a conversation, argument, or debate by questioning the integrity and ethics of another person, it makes it damn near impossible to find a resolution. If the "accused" admits an error or oversight then he fears that he is implicitly "admitting" that he lacks integrity or ethics. That's the problem with this entire thread - a lack of restraint, respect, and civility right out of the gate. This puts everyone on defense and on edge and is no way to sway an audience to your argument (or your banjo lessons, speaking for at least one BHO member currently contemplating much-needed lessons.)
It's why our political "leaders" can't get anything accomplished; because every issue is self-righteously framed in terms of moral absolutes where each party (small "p" party) demonizes the ideas of the opposing party. It is toxic in Washington, the BHO, or anywhere else.
Tuneager - Posted - 08/23/2010: 20:37:26
quote:
Originally posted by schlange
Wow--a lot of accusations flying around here. Glad I was alerted to this thread by the mods.
You can mark your MP3s as non-downloadable, which will make it so iTunes folks can't download it.
Overall, I would say this: If you don't want your songs played on the Internet, don't post them on the Internet! I submitted the podcasts to iTunes, because I wanted to get the music out beyond our little community. I'm the one footing the bill for the downloads and PRO licenses, for what is probably a negligable business benefit. But getting good banjo tunes out to the iTunes world--that's a beautiful thing.
As for the avatar graphic--that was just a fun little thing that I threw together that a LOT of people enjoyed (see the thread on that). Lighten up and live a little, I say.
These aren't issues of privacy
Bayou Talker - Posted - 08/24/2010: 05:31:40
I know you mean that in a sarcastic way but you really DON'T want to hear my picking. If I ever progress to a reasonable level I would be happy to post something.
In the mean time, you have made your point and your continuing rants repeating the same thing is really not doing you any favors. You are not presenting yourself in a good light. I know if I was looking for a teacher this kind of activity would make me look elsewhere. Making your complaint was justifiable in the beginning but it is time to let it go or take it offline to Eric.
quote:
Originally posted by Banjocoltrane
Would love to hear your picking
biznork - Posted - 08/24/2010: 07:50:30
Bottom line here. If you have issues, quit posting tunes on the internet. Being rude to someone who is providing a forum for people to chat about the banjo and calling him unethical and accusing him of profiteering off of your music probably turns more people off to you and your music.
biznork - Posted - 08/24/2010: 07:52:49
quote:
Originally posted by Banjocoltranequote:
Originally posted by Bayou Talker
YUP, looks like there are 2 of you upset but Banjov apparantly deleted his files so it won't happen again. You do have the same option. Perhaps you should do the same.quote:
Originally posted by Banjocoltrane
Please visit this thread
banjohangout.org/topic/184417
It appears I'm not the only one unhappy about BHO soundfiles being distributed without credit.
Actually I already deleted them...yesterday I believe...Perhaps you should post some? Would love to hear your picking
daveh - Posted - 08/24/2010: 07:58:27
If I had all those hit singles I guess I would get upset too. Didn't Jody write all of those songs for Lady Gaga??
Goldstarman - Posted - 08/24/2010: 08:34:39
quote:
Originally posted by daveh
If I had all those hit singles I guess I would get upset too. Didn't Jody write all of those songs for Lady Gaga??
Edited by - Goldstarman on 08/24/2010 15:23:24
daveh - Posted - 08/24/2010: 08:55:33
You are right. I should't have done it. Sorry Tim
Edited by - daveh on 08/24/2010 09:05:55
Thor - Posted - 08/24/2010: 09:56:55
Until this thread, I had no idea my BHO uploads were being fed to the iTunes Store.
quote:
1) I've always given members credit, from day 1, for everything they post. See my previous posts for explanations on that.

GShannon - Posted - 08/24/2010: 10:14:11
I guess I feel like the 'ethics' of this whole thing demand that anyone using any material they did NOT create for any reason WHATSOEVER is obligated by the Karma God to give credit where credit is due. As a writer myself, this is not negotiable. Ever..! I give credit on stage, on recordings, and in workshops if I know who wrote it and where it comes from, and I make it clear when I don't and ask if anyone does know. I expect and demand the same in return. If I feel my material is being offered without giving proper credits to the piece, I'll be compelled to remove it and myself from the offending source. This whole conversation casts doubt on the non-negotiable credit aspect of original material being on this site, and makes me very nervous that is needs to be discussed at all. As musicians and artists, we should know better.
Tuneager - Posted - 08/24/2010: 10:43:49
quote:
Originally posted by Thor
Until this thread, I had no idea my BHO uploads were being fed to the iTunes Store.quote:
1) I've always given members credit, from day 1, for everything they post. See my previous posts for explanations on that.
Well... sorta.
As you said.. the member's *USERNAME* is included in the feed. That may or may not be real as far as crediting an original piece of music. And the only place that username shows up in iTunes is in the iTunes song status window-- and only if someone clicks "Play" on a tune. There is no way to get to a user's BHO page from iTunes, so that info is useless in the feed.
The only way a member can appropriately credit their tunes is if they include their information (real name, copyright info, etc) in the description. This is certainly NOT obvious. Why not explain this on the mp3 upload page? Perhaps where the copyright text is? Put a paragraph there that explains that your mp3s will be featured in BHO iTunes podcasts.
I've never bothered too much with the descriptions for my uploads, so this is all you see in iTunes for one of my tunes:
No credit, no additional info at all.
Now I'm going back and updating the description fields for my uploads...
lazyarcher - Posted - 08/24/2010: 10:53:27
quote:
Originally posted by schlange
Jody: I suppose the point of disagreement is over whether proper credit and notification were given.
I believe I've properly credited people for their work (see previous posts--credit has always been given, so please stop saying it hasn't been). And I don't think any "notification" is necessary given that it's obvious from using the site that music is available for the public to listen to via the jukebox, that people can download the files (unless you've turned that option off), and that people can subscribe to playlists via RSS (which is all that iTunes is doing). That's all been on the site from when we first started doing allowing MP3 uploads.
I suppose I could spell that out for people when they upload an MP3. Is that what you're wanting?
biznork - Posted - 08/24/2010: 11:06:06
quote:
Originally posted by lazyarcherquote:
Originally posted by schlange
Jody: I suppose the point of disagreement is over whether proper credit and notification were given.
I believe I've properly credited people for their work (see previous posts--credit has always been given, so please stop saying it hasn't been). And I don't think any "notification" is necessary given that it's obvious from using the site that music is available for the public to listen to via the jukebox, that people can download the files (unless you've turned that option off), and that people can subscribe to playlists via RSS (which is all that iTunes is doing). That's all been on the site from when we first started doing allowing MP3 uploads.
I suppose I could spell that out for people when they upload an MP3. Is that what you're wanting?
Although Jody and the rest have may disagree with the process of HOW it happened, Erics post here is what makes sense. The BHO is a privately owned public access site. When you post your music to a homepage, you know its accessable for downloading....so dont be upset when it is. Take responsability for control of your music if you dont want it downloaded without your permission and dont put it on public sites.
schlange - Posted - 08/24/2010: 11:39:22
Thor--you can also right-click a song and select "Get Info" to view the name of the poster. I've always passed the name of the poster, as well as a URL to their music homepage, in the feed (see banjohangout.org/rss/Top.xml). Again, this is just a standard podcast RSS feed--whether iTunes changes things so the author is credited it a more obvious way or not isn't something I can control. The only thing I COULD do is insert the poster's name into the description field--but that still won't get you a link to their homepage from iTunes, and it's a "hack" that they would frown upon. Better to follow the podcast standard.
Again, if you want to suggest improvements to how things are done, please do so in the Improvements and Suggestions forum. Thanks!
frailin - Posted - 08/24/2010: 12:11:45
quote:
I guess I feel like the 'ethics' of this whole thing demand that anyone using any material they did NOT create for any reason WHATSOEVER is obligated by the Karma God to give credit where credit is due. As a writer myself, this is not negotiable. Ever..
GShannon
Goldstarman - Posted - 08/24/2010: 15:24:23
Dave no need to appologize, i know where your coming from
KRbanjo - Posted - 08/24/2010: 16:02:26
Eric,
I have gone on i Tunes, found my song, right clicked, left clicked, every kind on click I can think of and can't find my name anywhere, tell me what I am doing wrong or at least how to find it. I can search i Tunes using my name and nothing comes up, search using my hangout name and the song comes up 3 times, but I still don't see anything that says it is recorded by me.
Any suggestions? Anyone?
Kevin
schlange - Posted - 08/24/2010: 17:02:42
KRBanjo--if I search in the iTunes store for "Sourwood Mountain" then click the play button next to yours, it shows your name underneath the song name at the top of iTunes.
That's the easiest way to see it, but most people don't listen to podcasts this way--they actually subscribe to the podcast, then listen to the "episodes" (which in our case are indivdual songs). That's the only way to see more "details" about each song--otherwise the preview iTunes gives you is pretty limited.
If you actually subscribe to the podcast, then once the song is downloaded, you can right-click it and choose "Get Info"--then under "Info" you'll see your username under "Artist." You'll also see your description and other details about the song.
Podcasts are typically regular "shows" done by the same person or organization on a regular basis, and I think iTunes had designed their interface to work best under those assumed conditions. That's why you don't see the same Artist/Album fields as you would for, say, a typical CD track in your iTunes database.
BanjoDiva - Posted - 08/24/2010: 18:52:46
I got tired of reading the debate back and forth, so I skimmed the last two pages. If the following points have been made, and i missed them in my skimming, I apologize.
I see the term "public" forum showing up in a lot of posts. That term implies that the entire site is wide open, but that realy isn't the case. There is a setting on each member's home page that allows the content to be restricted to "members only." Granted, pretty much anyone can join, but that is still one extra step between the information a member posts and the "public." So, one question I have is this: If someone has their settings to include "members only" then are their respective sound files still included in the RSS feed which is picked up by iTunes? And if that is the case, then doesn't that mean that anyone accessing iTunes, even those not affiliated with the Bho, can access those sound files? If that is the case, then the "members only" setting is disingenious.
Second, there are a lot of instructions being hurled at Jody on how HE can make sure that he gets proper credit by changing a number of things about the sound files. Why should he have to? He isn't the one who put them out there on the RSS feed. He posted them on BHO yes, but obviously without the information that they would be distributed to other internet sites. The responsibility for making sure he receives the credit he is due shouldn't rest on him. And we need to remember that many of the files were posted well before the Bho had evolved to the point of having RSS feeds or many of its other current features. What about the folks who posted files back when the expected uses of them were different then they are now? Many of those people don't participate in the forum anymore...have they been notified that they need to update the fields for their files so that they receive proper credit?
Finally, lots of suggestions being made that Jody is the sole one to benefit from posting his files on this free, public forum. That's bunk. In the early days Eric was delighted to have pickers the quality of Jody participating in this forum. Jody is quite capable of making CDs and restricting access to his art to those who purchase the CDs. He has done most of us a favor, including Eric, by making high quality performance material available to us for free. It would be common courtesy to at least notify him that the files were now being used for a purpose other than what he originally intended, and any effort taken to provide him with proper credit after he posted the files should not fall in his lap.
And one last thing...I"m pretty sure that all those people who are jumping on Jody about how grateful he should be to have his sound files being distributed, probably would be scrambling backwards pretty fast if it was Sonny or J.D. making the same complaint.
Jody, MY advice to you -- you're obviously not happy with the callous way you've been treated, and I can't blame you. Personally, I'd remove every file I had made available and make sure to never post another one. But that's just me.
BanjoDiva - Posted - 08/24/2010: 18:56:10
To Eric: there is a real easy way to solve this problem. Post a disclaimer that appears whenever someone tries to load a sound file informing them of the possibility of the file being distributed beyond the Bho. Send everyone who currently has sound files posted an email with the same info and what they need to do if they a) don't want their files distribued, and b)want to make sure proper credit is given.
That solves both the ethical and practical dilemma.
KRbanjo - Posted - 08/24/2010: 19:21:40
Maybe so, but callous is correct. And Diva is correct, if this happened to Earl, Sonny, or J.D. on this site or any other site, people would be climbing over each other to tell how J.D., Earl or Sonny had been wronged. It's a mob mentality here sometimes, one reason I don't post to much, that and I don't really have much to say, lol.
BanjoDiva - Posted - 08/24/2010: 19:45:11
quote:
Originally posted by biznork
Callous? He insulted Eric.
Edited by - BanjoDiva on 08/24/2010 19:47:16
dustinTN - Posted - 08/24/2010: 20:22:19
quote:
Originally posted by BanjoDiva
And one last thing...I"m pretty sure that all those people who are jumping on Jody about how grateful he should be to have his sound files being distributed, probably would be scrambling backwards pretty fast if it was Sonny or J.D. making the same complaint.
tomberghan - Posted - 08/24/2010: 22:05:31
I think there is no answer for some of you on this issue . . . but look . . . if you want your name to appear, just do what I did. Look! You can see my name! Please don't hollar at Eric!
Steven M - Posted - 08/25/2010: 00:28:45
Sorry Banjocoltrane, I think you have lost this one game set and match. It seems to me that it is through your own mistakes that your name and credits do not appear. Man up and stop playing the blame game. As for being notified, this is a public forum.
End of story.
P.S. Now that you have deleted your music from the archive, even this limited audience does not get to hear it, who will? It appears that you have shot yourself in the foot. Pity because I heard some of your stuff on the jukebox, I liked it, remarked upon it to myself and made an effort to find out that it was you.
frailin - Posted - 08/25/2010: 06:10:58
This post is not aimed at anyone in particular... nor is it a criticism. But I thought it worthy of a mention. 
I teach marketing classes at a technical college here in MN. In preparing my 19-27 YO students for marketing/sales/advertising careers in a competitively brutal and unforgiving work environment, I recommend they read and study this book. It's really just a discussion about human nature. The more people see you as cooperative, helpful, trustworthy and just "easy to work with," the higher your odds of success in business and in life. The fact of the matter is, if you can't get along with people, you won't make it in business... no matter what your skill level.
Through his successful career in dealing with people, Dale Carnegie figured out the importance of:
1 - Being able to clearly and effectively state your case in a non-confrontational manner.
2 - Listening - really hearing an audience's response.
3 - Understanding their feedback.
4 - Debating specific points in an educational manner and
5 - Incorporating the most effective elements of feedback into a plan.
Once this process is mastered, you can talk with most anybody about most anything. And win a friend in the process. ![]()
--------------------------------
Here's the book's write up on Amazon:
Financial success, Carnegie believed, is due 15 percent to professional knowledge and 85 percent to "the ability to express ideas, to assume leadership, and to arouse enthusiasm among people." He teaches these skills through underlying principles of dealing with people so that they feel important and appreciated.
He also emphasizes fundamental techniques for handling people without making them feel manipulated. Carnegie says you can make someone want to do what you want them to by seeing the situation from the other person's point of view and "arousing in the other person an eager want." You learn how to make people like you, win people over to your way of thinking, and change people without causing offense or arousing resentment. For instance, "let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers," and "talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person."
Edited by - frailin on 08/25/2010 06:13:49
minstrelmike - Posted - 08/25/2010: 07:03:40
One company asks a two-part question during the interview process.
1. What is the biggest misperception people have about you?
2. What is the difference between perception and misperception?
schlange - Posted - 08/25/2010: 11:15:29
quote:
Originally posted by BanjoDiva
I see the term "public" forum showing up in a lot of posts. That term implies that the entire site is wide open, but that realy isn't the case. There is a setting on each member's home page that allows the content to be restricted to "members only." Granted, pretty much anyone can join, but that is still one extra step between the information a member posts and the "public." So, one question I have is this: If someone has their settings to include "members only" then are their respective sound files still included in the RSS feed which is picked up by iTunes? And if that is the case, then doesn't that mean that anyone accessing iTunes, even those not affiliated with the Bho, can access those sound files? If that is the case, then the "members only" setting is disingenious.
schlange - Posted - 08/25/2010: 11:37:36
Hi Folks,
I've decided to take a couple actions as a result of this discussion. I realized that during this whole discussion I've been so busy trying to defend accusations against my personal character that I neglected to address the legitimate concerns of the site's users.
To that end, here's what I'm doing:
First, I updated the MP3 upload form. You can see it now by clicking "MP3 Audio" in the "Add Content" menu in the right-hand red bar, then clicking "Upload an MP3". I've added a couple more help (?) buttons, as well as text warning people of the dire consquences of keeping the "Prevent downloading of this MP3" box unchecked.
Second--I'll be emailing everyone this week who currently has one or more songs posted, to let them know about the "Prevent Downloading" option, and how it effects the potential distribution of their MP3 across this site as well as third party sites and applications.
I hope that satisfies everyone who is concerned with this issue. Now go pick your banjo! :-)
Viper - Posted - 08/25/2010: 12:25:12
Kudos to you, Eric. The accusations thrown your way were unfair, but I think your actions should resolve this complaint that turned into a mob fight.
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