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minstrelmike - Posted - 01/31/2011: 16:41:20
quote:I see the same thing. However, complaining about the mods is against the rules. Even complaining publicly about the rules is against the rules. You can send Eric a pm but you cannot have an open discussion.
Originally posted by BryanWB
There seems to be a number of members leaving recently, their main reason, as far as I can see, is that they have experienced more than just rudeness in more than one BHO Forum. Nevertheless, there doesn't seem to be a moderator stepping in to smooth things over with these disappearing members, or to calm those who can't resist being objectionable.
I haven't experienced problems such as this, but do read a lot of blogs and posts in here.
Yes, the site does belong to Eric, and it must be a really tough job to keep it going - thanks to him, this is the only place to come if you're really interested in banjo playing, and not finding amusement in making hurtful remarks (as has been complained about) to other members.
schlange - Posted - 01/31/2011: 16:47:02
quote:
Originally posted by minstrelmike
I see the same thing. However, complaining about the mods is against the rules. Even complaining publicly about the rules is against the rules. You can send Eric a pm but you cannot have an open discussion.
minstrelmike - Posted - 01/31/2011: 17:23:30
I don't reread the rules every time you change them.
I have been explicitly told that complaining about the rules will get me kicked off.
I'll work from your new rulez now.
Royalott - Posted - 01/31/2011: 18:58:38
quote:
Originally posted by John Estep
I'm here to talk about playing the banjo and with luck I hope to meet some good people and share ideas .....
Grumpy1 - Posted - 01/31/2011: 20:58:45
I can say truthfully that I have posted a response in jest and it turned into a dadburn free for all. Everyone took it out of context and the polarity of opinions rose to the surface. Apologizing for not thinking it through before posting only made it worse. Some folks just don't share the same sense of humor as others. I think it's a good idea to have the moderators watching for these things and keeping them under control. After all we're mostly here for the same reasons, discussing banjo's in their various aspects, music in general, socializing and sharing ideas in non-related sections. No need to throw civility to the wind whenever we disagree a bit. ![]()
Pablo9364 - Posted - 02/01/2011: 02:06:58
I have to admit to being a bit naive. This is the first forum I've ever joined.
I didn't even know what a moderator was or that they existed until very recently. I read the rules yesterday (its only 2 pages and fairly easy to understand!) (must be a sign of getting older or something!!)
Its obvious why were all here but I guess with 54000+ members there is potential for friction on this site and these people and rules are necessary to avoid the alternative (bad)scenario that a lot of you have been mentioning above.![]()
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rickshunter1 - Posted - 02/01/2011: 03:59:53
I am here to make friends and learn from them to make me a better player there are some great people on here and some that like to start trouble which you will have with this many people on the site hopefully they will see there evil ways and turn over a new leaf or choose to leave or get the BOOT whichever.
blamethebanjo - Posted - 02/01/2011: 08:06:18
This is the easiest place in the world to follow the rules and anyone with a gripe can move along if they feel this isn't what they want. What else is there to consider? I don't want to discuss religion or politics on here. This is a worn out discussion I believe. I got thrown off a banjo site because of politics so it seems that doesn't work so well. This place is the best. There is a reason all the folks who have their own sites are still on here.
drew-gurbach - Posted - 02/02/2011: 15:45:28
I kind of like a family-friendly environment. I also choose to be here. I can always drop out if I choose. Moderators do what they do to the best of their ability and judgment. My old adage: If I don’t like the movie, I leave the theater.
I'm still here!
Edited by - drew-gurbach on 02/02/2011 15:54:28
Disco Kid - Posted - 02/02/2011: 17:04:20
quote:
Originally posted by Nymphadora
<snip> Odd...I've found that owning a banjo does not endow anyone with special rights and privlages on a private site. Hugs....
NickC - Posted - 02/04/2011: 13:35:48
I've been giving this some thought in the light of some the more measured responses i recieved to my post. Whilst I do think that this policy does limit the freedom of speech of some of the more adventurous and entertaining members of this site I do see how the moderation policy generally makes the hangout a very civilised place to be. Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond to my little gripe in an intelligent way.
Grey Dog - Posted - 02/04/2011: 19:47:44
quote:
Originally posted by Disco Kidquote:
Originally posted by Nymphadora
<snip> Odd...I've found that owning a banjo does not endow anyone with special rights and privlages on a private site. Hugs....
So with my banjo I'm not endowed? Thanks, Nymph
Don Borchelt - Posted - 02/05/2011: 07:53:04
Eric wrote: "It's not against the rules to complain about the rules. And it's only against the rules to question a moderator's specific actions..."
I didn't understand that, thank you for the clarification. Okay, since we now have that cleared up, I think the rule about not being able to question a mod's specific action sucks. ![]()
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Edited by - Don Borchelt on 02/05/2011 07:53:58
minstrelmike - Posted - 02/05/2011: 13:45:47
quote:I agree. Which mod you talking about?
Originally posted by Don Borchelt
...I think the rule about not being able to question a mod's specific action sucks.
Don Borchelt - Posted - 02/08/2011: 06:48:56
minstrelmike wrote: "I agree. Which mod you talking about?"
I just had a post deleted a day or so ago, I don't know which rule I broke or who did it. I wasn't notified, it just disappeared. But I'm NOT questioning the decision, mind you, I'm sure the mod had good reasons. The deletion came right after I posted it. I must be on the watch list! ![]()
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- Don Borchelt
Edited by - Don Borchelt on 02/08/2011 06:54:46
chazzee - Posted - 02/08/2011: 09:03:17
I'm gonna join the Union! There is power in the union!
"If the money's right, I'm for censorship!"
BrittDLD1 - Posted - 02/08/2011: 09:19:26
quote:
Originally posted by the-fish
theres a watch list? LOL
minstrelmike - Posted - 02/08/2011: 10:30:59
It's been threat level yellow for a while so you probably haven't noticed
(but they are watching).
Don Borchelt - Posted - 02/08/2011: 10:59:30
quote:
Originally posted by the-fish
theres a watch list? LOL
EnglishWolf - Posted - 02/08/2011: 11:36:33
You'll be accusing Eric of implementing TSA style body scanners next!
"Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you"
ps. Personally, just to put your minds at rest, if I had a watch list I wouldn't include a bunch of middle-aged banjo players. Unless of course Angelina Jolie took up pickin'....
Edited by - EnglishWolf on 02/08/2011 11:36:52
minstrelmike - Posted - 02/08/2011: 11:42:33
It's called profiling and saves a lot of time. Of course, there is still the occasional personal attack or name-calling or most dreaded of all, the ALL CAPS post inserted by some newbie but profiling is essentially playing the odds.
And I agree with EnglishW, I much prefer the profile of Angeline Jolie to that of Beer Belly Bill.
Bill Rogers - Posted - 02/08/2011: 12:27:04
Actually, the watch list is for likely spammers. The members do all the watching of posters that we need.
Karen Kruske - Posted - 02/09/2011: 06:21:44
"You'll be accusing Eric of implementing TSA style body scanners next!"
Well scanners I can take, but if it comes to a grab and grope body search, I'll not posting anymore!
RogerThailand - Posted - 03/04/2011: 00:44:26
I have read this thread with interest. I make two comments:
Censorship and rules for the smooth running of an organisation are not the same thing. Censorship is political, judgmental and is about suppression and is emotive. Having a policy which, say, forbids political opinion in a particular forum is not, per se, censorship. As has been ably argued by many here, a political opinion can be freely expressed in the appropriate place. Think of it as banning miners from taking matches underground - the rule doesn't forbid the miner being a smoker. The important point is that the rule has a non-political purpose.
On the thread re limiting editing to 15 minutes I also stated what a civil forum this is compared to others but ask an unanswered question: are removals of posts by moderators indicated by the poster's avatar remaining with a brief reason for removal alongside? If not, would such a practice also aid civility?
Edited by - RogerThailand on 03/04/2011 00:49:55
bluegrass 22 - Posted - 03/04/2011: 21:21:50
wow what a bunch off losers do any of you play the banjo////// i haven't herd any thing banjo in weeks just b****ing the way you are we don't need in our union bluegrass 22
EnglishWolf - Posted - 03/04/2011: 22:08:37
Thank you to bluegrass22 for this classic example of exactly why some level of moderation is required :-)
csrat - Posted - 03/05/2011: 06:55:00
Hate to see you go Nick. How about we remember why you joined and put aside a non-related forum issue because, it's non-related. It's a surprise to me to find this thread since I just logged on to delete a post I made yesterday to a non-related forum. The issue is important to me, but it doesn't belong here, so I'm taking my post down and looking for all the other things on this site that I like. You're not hurting anyone by leaving and can that spirit of the internet baloney. The internet was not created for folks to spout and sputter about whatever and then get miffed because they're on the wrong site for their topic. Play the banjo Nick and find a more appropriated venue for more controversial topics.
RogerThailand - Posted - 03/05/2011: 20:19:48
My above unanswered question has been kindly answered by Don Borchelt in the 15 minute editing thread - many thanks.
I don't think I am the only one to conflate these two threads. There are overlaps in the two discussions which suggest either some people going off topic - myself included - or else there is a need for a new discussion thread about rules and etiquette.
I think Eric's rules are clear and concise making the forums civilised places. And everyone is free to contribute suggestions they think would improve the BHO. A re-iteration and regular review of etiquette would not I think be remiss in any of the forums.
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